Thanks for Grieving: A Unique Thanksgiving Perspective | by Toni Maxx | Nov 2025

As Thanksgiving approaches, it’s essential to reflect on a deeper truth: gratitude and grief often coexist. While the holiday is typically portrayed with images of cheer and togetherness, its history is much more complex, especially for Indigenous communities affected by displacement and pain.

“Thanksgiving has always held two emotional threads running at the same time: gratitude and grief.”

Originally declared a national holiday by Abraham Lincoln during the Civil War, Thanksgiving serves as a moment for reflection rather than pure celebration. This reflection invites us to consider an emotional landscape where both joy and sorrow coexist, leading to what the author describes as “Thanks Grieving”.

  • The female perspective: Lost Behind My Smile highlights resilience amidst loss.
  • The male perspective: Breaking Quietly focuses on clarity and beginning to heal.

Both songs underscore a universal truth: we all carry burdens yet continue to show up and love. Thanksgiving, therefore, isn’t about achieving perfection but embracing sincerity and growth.

By allowing both gratitude and grief to coexist, the holiday becomes more meaningful and human. There’s a profound beauty in this honest mix, making it a celebration worth exploring.

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